Dealing with weirdos allsorts- photogs, creepers, starers...
One of the less nice sides of wearing a flashy style like lolita is public response. Lots of people will think you look adorable, which is great, but you will also run into less pleasant people and often girls, especially newer lolitas, don't know how to deal with someone like that. In this blogpost I want to share some tricks that have worked for me in the past to shoo off less than pleasant folks. Photographers These come in many shapes and sizes! Of course if someone politely asks for your picture that's usually fine, the only times I personally refuse are when I'm in a serious hurry or if the person asking is a single man because I can't be sure exactly why they want my picture. Couples and women are more likely to think you just look cute and kids almost always want a picture with the pretty princess. As long as they ask nicely I'm totally fine with it. The problem arises when the person doesn't ask at all. The first thing you want to do is signal polit